Welcome to…THE REVOLUTION!
“The Recipe” is unlike anything else out there. It is not a rigid set of instructions, but rather a flexible system that conforms and contorts to your way of learning. It will customize itself just for you!
Several years ago I had a “Eureka!” moment. I was in LA, assisting the lead coach at one of those”learn how to meet women” seminars. The student I was working with kept complaining that even though he was doing everything right, he was seeing no progress. No woman would have a conversation with him. But when I brought up this issue to the lead coach, his response was “Just have him keep doing it.” And that’s when it dawned on me; most of the time, it’s not about how good the material is.
It’s ALL about how well the student absorbs the information.
I spent a very long time polishing and perfecting the teachings that comprise “The Recipe”, but the last 5 years were dedicated solely to finding a better way to teach. The result? A foolproof system that requires only one thing: YOUR EFFORT TO BECOME BETTER.
What I’ve Got For You…
If you make an effort, you will improve. Your will get better, your interactions will get better, your relationships will get better. How quick? Well, that depends entirely on how much effort you’re willing to invest.
Requirements of Participants
The only thing that is required is the commitment toward yourself and the teachings, a positive attitude and the ability to work well with others.
Who’s This For?
“The Recipe” was designed with one goal in mind. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering “why can I not find that amazing love?”, then this is for you.
How You’ll Learn
Every lesson is presented via video training modules, and rehashed using an online forum, where you can post your questions in full anonymity.
Who Is “The Recipe” NOT For?
If you’re looking for a quick & easy fix, a “magic pill”, or a new way to meet people, “The Recipe” will not help you, and neither will I.
How To Get Started
Just click on the PayPal button below to gain unrestricted access to “The Recipe”.
Want to know what goes in “The Recipe”?
(For a preview of “The Recipe” visit our forums)
“The Recipe” is your easy to understand system, your personal guide to personal interaction, where one step flows from the previous one. Designed to be your blueprint on the road to the most amazing relationship you’ve never even dreamed of, it is not a set of self-help instructions. “The Recipe” was designed in such a way that your progress is guaranteed, providing you follow the instructions to the letter and MAKE AN EFFORT.
Broken down into three parts, the system is further subdivided into individual steps.
The three main stages are “Before the Interaction”, “During the Interaction” and “After the Interaction”.
While each of the first two stages consists of four individual steps, the last stage has only one part.
First stage teaches you how to prepare yourself.
Second, how to act in the interaction.
And third, how to learn and become better.
Communication is a strange beast. Most of us believe that since we communicate every day, we know how to communicate in a relationship, or even prior to one. Sadly enough, the situation is akin to being a “good driver.” No matter how skilled you are, you’re still eons away from even an amateur racing driver, never mind a professional racer. But, as you speed down the highway, in your mind you’re Mario Andretti.
It is the same with communication. There’s a world of difference between communicating and communicating well, especially when the conversation is centered around creating a relationship…
Proper Previous Planning Prevents Piss Poor Performance = “The Law of 7 P’s.”
In military, preparation is everything. Without a good plan, even a large military force can be overcome by a small group of well-trained and better prepared soldiers.
In competitive sports, proper form and preparation defines whether you’ll collect the gold medal or just an honorable mention as a “participant.” And, let’s face it, in the game of love nobody wants to be a participant. We all want the happy “ride into the sunset” ending. Thus, the first stage is of a paramount importance.
Stage I. “Before the Interaction”.
The four steps are:
- “It’s easier than you think”
- “Be ready”
- “Want/need list”
- “Opportunities are everywhere”
Step 1 is the basis for everything that “The Recipe” teaches you. Remember, our minds work in a very quirky fashion. Whenever we encounter something we’ve never attempted before, our minds automatically switch into “we have to know everything there is to know about this discipline or else we’ll never be able to perform properly” mode. Yet, things are a lot simpler than they appear.
If I were to ask you, “What do you need to drive a car?”…
Chances are, the answer will surprise you.
Amazingly, you don’t need a properly working car, or a license, or ability to see, or knowing/doing anything else. All you need in order to DRIVE A CAR is to know 3 things. How to steer, how to accelerate, and how to brake. Everything else is irrelevant.
Step 2 asks you a simple question. “If you want the best from your potential partner, don’t they deserve the same?”
While it is not necessary to lose 20 lbs in order to begin dating, it IS necessary to begin making an effort.
Step 3 is all about figuring out EXACTLY what you’re looking for. These lists, that my clients made, have had as many as 50 different qualities, yet so few of us ever truly question the smallest things that make so much of a difference.
Remember, knowing what you don’t want is nowhere near the same as knowing what you want. (This is exactly the “Want/Need” exercise that you’ve just completed for free! Well, you did, didn’t you?)
Step 4 is another principle, steeped in practice. Opportunities may come and go, but if you’re waiting for someone to send you an email when the opportunity knocks, you may end up waiting for a very very long time. You must be prepared and ready!
Stage II. “During the Interaction”.
- Recognize the Interaction
- Take Advantage Of (T.A.O.) Interaction
- Continue the interaction (communication)
Now that you know that opportunities are everywhere, it is time to learn to recognize those opportunities. So often we are guided by societal standards to “not talk to strangers”, “do not embarrass yourself.” Well, if you live your life on the side of caution, why then get out of the house? On the other hand, how do you recognize the situation without being completely crass and void of manners?
This is what the first step in this stage is all about. Learn to recognize the interaction, then you can move onto learning how to “Take Advantage Of” said interaction.
Professional athletes call this “being in the zone.” I call it “our everyday distractions.” If you’re in a conversation, what are you focused on? Whether or not your boss thinks you’re doing a good job? If your cat needs a visit to the vet? Or are you worried about that rude driver that cut you off this morning?
Or, perhaps, by some miracle, you’re paying all of your attention to the person in front of you, while they’re doing the same, and the room around you slowly dissipates into nothing, until there’s only just the two of you…
Stage 3. “After the Interaction”.
And, finally, every good deed deserves a pat on the back, right?
But, how do you know whether you did well? How do you know how to improve upon what you thought didn’t work so well? That is exactly what the last stage, “After the Interaction” focuses on.
Oh, now you’re getting nervous? Simply because I told you that you have to analyze your own behavior?
But, remember what we said in the very very beginning?
“It’s simpler than you think!”
You see, this is the beauty of “The Recipe.”
Unlike a traditional “follow me” tutorial, where I might describe what I have achieved and make you try your darnedest (and fail in the process), “The Recipe” serves a comprehensive guide that will help anyone by guiding them toward creating the kind of a relationship that people used to only read about in fairy tales.
Imagine, a complete system that works WITH you, guiding you toward becoming better at interactions, being a better person, and having a better relationship…
Of course, there is a “but…”
“The Recipe” has everything you could ever ask for, except the most crucial detail. You.
The one and absolute requirement is that you have to make an effort. Just like a going to the gym won’t make you fit without you doing any exercises, “The Recipe” requires that you put in work. It is only that last variable that will determine when you will succeed.
Of course, you may be thinking “but I don’t want to spend the next 20 years getting better at relationships. I want to be in one NOW!”
Well, you’re in luck, my friend, as I do offer one-on-one training, but only for select few.
For more details, including the “be in the relationship of your dreams within 6 months or less” guarantee, check out “Mentorship.”